The Dangers Of Looking Like A Karen

How Stereotypes Are Destroying Our Society

I have the misfortune of looking like a Karen. Being an adult white, blond woman can be dangerous. It never used to be. Now, I’m the dreaded white lady you see in your store, or on the bus, or really anywhere. It doesn’t help I fit the stereotypical conception of what a Karen looks like. Even my Facebook avatar looks like a Karen.

My name is not Karen. I’m not an entitled ultra-conservative person. I don’t live a pampered or sheltered lifestyle. I’m not middle class or suburban. However, I’ve managed to fit the physical profile of a Karen and carry that stigma.

I mentioned this problem to my friend at work. She’s Hispanic. When I told her that I get targeted as a Karen, she laughed hysterically. I said, “I look like one.” She studied me and reluctantly agreed. Her comment, “People are really messed up.”

Nothing Is As It Appears To Be

Atlantic City, New Jersey is a diverse city. People from all corners of the world live here. I migrated to the city 20 years ago from New England. In all those years, I’ve lived in every sort of ethnic neighborhood. The vast majority of the time, I’m the lone white lady in the neighborhood. Every single apartment we’ve lived in, I’m the only white person in the building. No one ever cared.